Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Crush is fun... as long as you don't fall in love.

This article is written based on another favorite author of mine... I forgot her name... In case of plagiarism, here is the credit, and I am apologizing in advance.
So.... Let's get started.

Everyone must have at least one crush in their lifetime.. that crush can be just a crush, first love, love for the lifetime, or the worst nightmare. LOL.

It all starts with a glance, believe me. First impression is very crucial in building almost everyone's crush thingy feeling. Once you see that person again and again, you begin to have emotional interest and start to have a little happiness within yourself.


Some exceptional cases are being investigated on how people can even get a crush on someone when they just meet for only one time, or even some develop that feeling when all they see the other person is a profile picture and activities on social network.


Anyway!! I will continue my hypothesis here.


Crush??? That feeling is damn good.


After seeing that person repeatedly, no matter it's in the school, or work, you begin to have a habit of seeing that one.


You have that little zoo inside yourself (mention about butterflies is too mainstream) every time you see that person.


You feel hyper... like seriously. You begin searching for that one's basic informations. Seeing how cute he/she is, you tell yourself how glad you are to have him/her as your crush.


Just a glance from the distance can make your day. If you guys' eyes meet, you would go crazy inside. And you would tell this to brag to your close friend, and how you protect him/her from being criticized.


BUT!!!!!!! IT IS JUST A CRUSH, NOT A LOVE.


Crush is someone you adore, but if you cannot make them mine, you still feel fine inside.

But falling in love is a whole different thing.

When you love someone, you cannot go on a day without thinking of them.


That excitement becomes anxiety, and disappointment within yourself.


You do not need to investigate in a fun mode anymore because you have known that person enough already since you have given your all. 


Only a small thing means a lot to you... You will give hope to yourself hopelessly. 


And the worse case is.... THAT PERSON DOES NOT LOVE YOU BACK.


You will lose sleep thinking of that one like an idiot.

People around you have warned you that just take it as a crush, but now it's too late.
Tears are falling down like in drama... So dramatic!
Unlike crush, you would pray that one would love you back.
Tell yourself, "If this love only exists in my dream, don't wake me up."
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Love takes lots of more time for a person to move on than a solely crush.

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But this article is only about one sided-love only. To those who develop from crush into a relationship successfully, CONGRATULATIONS, YOU DID IT!!! ^^


You know why the author tells you not to fall in love?






"Because everything that falls, get broken." -Taylor Swift-






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